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Post by kungfubunny9876 on Nov 4, 2019 1:41:02 GMT
Just found out that my sister's getting a divorce, because the husband was apparently cheating on her. Now she's an emotional wreck and I'm afraid she's going to harm herself.
How could he do this to my sister? I've known the dude for a decade or so and he seemed like a nice guy. Never would have imagined he'd turn out to be a dick.
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Post by Uesugi-dono on Nov 5, 2019 9:14:41 GMT
Just found out that my sister's getting a divorce, because the husband was apparently cheating on her. Now she's an emotional wreck and I'm afraid she's going to harm herself. How could he do this to my sister? I've known the dude for a decade or so and he seemed like a nice guy. Never would have imagined he'd turn out to be a dick. That sucks, brother. That well and truly sucks. How complicated will this divorce be? Any kids? How's their income difference? It could be she comes out way on top with spousal support and, if they have them, child support. I abhor cheaters. That's the one level I've never stooped to. I once left a woman to be with another, but there's the difference: I knew I wanted this new woman so I broke up with the old one. As the 'victim' of several different cheaters in my life it feels horrible. Just awful. Hug your sister and let her know it will all be okay in the end. The transition sucks, but brighter days are coming.
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Post by kungfubunny9876 on Nov 5, 2019 17:00:13 GMT
Just found out that my sister's getting a divorce, because the husband was apparently cheating on her. Now she's an emotional wreck and I'm afraid she's going to harm herself. How could he do this to my sister? I've known the dude for a decade or so and he seemed like a nice guy. Never would have imagined he'd turn out to be a dick. That sucks, brother. That well and truly sucks. How complicated will this divorce be? Any kids? How's their income difference? It could be she comes out way on top with spousal support and, if they have them, child support. I abhor cheaters. That's the one level I've never stooped to. I once left a woman to be with another, but there's the difference: I knew I wanted this new woman so I broke up with the old one. As the 'victim' of several different cheaters in my life it feels horrible. Just awful. Hug your sister and let her know it will all be okay in the end. The transition sucks, but brighter days are coming. Will do, brother. This is her second marriage overall, and she doesn't have any kids. She's 53, so I think she's past the point of child bearing. I'm not sure what the income difference is between the two, but I know that she does share property with him in both Hawaii and Ireland. They were building a house in Ireland there to live. I suspect this will drag out in court over assets and who put in the most work and money. Just the legal nightmares of alimony are enough to compound on top of the workload she endures as a business owner AND the emotional distress of being betrayed by someone she had been married to for thirteen or so years. My sister has this fiery personality, and the other person was laid back, so they were, like, polar opposites, but they shared enough in common to have a relationship. Yet, even with my sister's personality flaws, she didn't deserve what happened to her. I trusted this asshole to honor my sister and make her happy, to take care of her through the thick and the thin, and look what he's gone and done. I did text her my support since she's in Hawaii. As of now, she's doing a little better. She's mainly focused on work, and she's got the support of friends and family keeping an eye out.
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